Favorites 2019: Romance!



redwhiteandroyalblueI loved this book so much! It is seriously sweet and romantic and delightful. It’s also a nice alternate universe political fantasy, in case you are need of one of those these days (and who isn’t?!). In fact, maybe I should reread it right about now…

Honorable mentions:

Evvie Drake Starts Over by Linda Holmes

The Bookish Life of Nina Hill by Abbi Waxman

Favorites 2019: Nonfiction!


I read quite a bit of nonfiction this year, and apparently my favorites were all quite depressing. Choose from historically depressing (The Five, which vividly details how absolutely horrid life could be for women in the Victorian age); environmentally/existentially depressing (Rising: Dispatches from the New American Shore); or depressing looks into pressing current issues (immigration in The Death and Life of Aida Hernandez and violence against women in No Visible Bruises). The only selection here that I would not describe as depressing is She Said, which does illustrate some atrocious behavior but is a really great and empowering journalism story and shows how exposing sexual abuse and harassment can eventually at least begin to hold perpetrators accountable. Even though they may not exactly brighten your day, all of these titles are illuminating and powerful and I highly recommend them!


Favorites 2019: Memoirs!

Many of my favorite books are memoirs, and this year had so many great ones! Here are my top two:

In the Dream House by Carmen Maria Machado: Wow, this book! In short snippets, the author vividly illustrates her experience of being in an abusive relationship with a woman, while also reflecting on the lack of societal understanding of abusive lesbian relationships. It is an extremely visceral read, especially if you have experience with any sort of emotional manipulation, abuse, or gaslighting in a relationship (so be forewarned!). Very innovative and emotionally powerful.

Know by Name by Chanel Miller: I think everyone should read this book, especially anyone out there who has ever wondered why someone would not report a sexual assault. You are probably already familiar with Chanel Miller, although not by name, from her devastating victim impact statement that went viral during the trial of the man who assaulted her at Stanford University. Here she reclaims her story and describes the nightmare of navigating the criminal justice system as an assault victim, and the lengths that our society goes to to try to defend sexual predators.

Honorable mentions:

Long Live the Tribe of Fatherless Girls by T Kira Madden

The Yellow House by Sarah M. Broom

Favorites 2019: Fiction!


Drive Your Plow Over the Bones of the Dead by Olga Tokarczuk: I found this one to be completely mesmerizing! I loved getting sucked in to Janina’s remote Polish village and her strangely off-kilter voice. If I had to pick only one fiction favorite of the year this would be it. I hope more works by Tokarczuk are translated into English now that she has won literary awards for both this one and Flights (which I’m reading right now).

On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous by Ocean Vuong: This autobiographical novel by Vuong, an acclaimed poet, is told in the form of a letter from a young man, known as Little Dog, to his illiterate Vietnamese-American mother. Try this if you are in the mood for beautiful and emotionally powerful writing about growing up and complicated family ties.

Disappearing Earth by Julia Phillips: This novel, set in the remote Kamchatka peninsula in Russia, has a mystery involving two missing young sisters at the center but is really more of a character study of the lives of various women who are connected to the disappearance in different ways. The unique setting and the daily lives of the characters added extra interest to the suspenseful plot.

Olive, Again by Elizabeth Strout: Strout excels at turning ordinary moments of ordinary lives into meaningful and surprisingly moving stories, and crotchety, complicated Olive Kitteridge is perhaps her best character to date. I loved catching up with her in Olive, Again. It made me realize how few fiction writers depict the lives of elderly characters with any real depth, which is something I found particularly moving in this one.


Favorite books of 2018


2018 was a pretty shit year for most things, huh? At least there were good books to distract us. I read 272 books this year, which is the most since I began logging my reading in Goodreads several years ago (and definitely makes it sound like I need some new hobbies). Here are some of my favorites:


The Murderbot Diaries novellas by Martha Wells (All Systems Red, Artificial Condition, Exit Strategy, Rogue Protocol): I just really loved these. Super fun, quick-paced science fiction with a tortured, snarky hero. I’m really looking forward to the full-length Murderbot novel the author is working on now.

The Great Believers by Rebecca Makkai: A touching and often quite sad novel of friendship that alternates between a group of friends in 1985 Chicago amidst the AIDS crisis and 30 years later, as one of them tracks down her estranged daughter in Paris.

Into the Drowning Deep by Mira Grant: Killer mermaids! Awesome diverse scientist characters! What’s not to love?

Broken Ground by Val McDermid: The fifth entry in the Karen Pirie series, and my favorite one to date. It centers on DCI Pirie, the head of a Historic Crimes Unit in Scotland. I love the mix of cold case investigation procedural, tough female detective, great character development, and atmospheric setting. I definitely recommend these if you are into any of those things.

The Trespasser by Tana French: The newest entry in the wonderful Dublin Murder Squad series, and my favorite so far. Each book in this series features a different detective as the main character, and this one is Detective Antoinette Conway, a bitchy badass with a chip on her shoulder. I love her.

Stray City by Chelsey Johnson: This novel centers on Andrea, a young woman who escapes her conservative Midwestern family for the insular lesbian community of 1990s Portland. When she finds herself pregnant after a short affair with a man, it upends her new found community. I found it to be charming and sweet, and I loved the 1990s setting.

Graphic Novels/Comics

Royal City by Jeff Lemire: As I’ve mentioned before, I am a sucker for sibling stories. And I’m a big fan of Jeff Lemire’s work, so I loved this series about a family coming to terms with past tragedy.

Hey, Kiddo by Jarrett Krosoczka: This memoir tells the author’s story of growing up as the son of an addicted mother. A beautifully done tearjerker.


The Library Book by Susan Orlean: I loved everything about this one. Lots of wonderfully eccentric characters from the world of libraries and Los Angeles history. I knew nothing about the story of the library fire going in, so it was all fascinating.

Heavy: An American Memoir by Kiese Laymon: The best memoir I read this year. A powerful heart-punch of a book about the author’s childhood and his relationship with the abusive mother he idolizes.

Nomadland: Surviving America in the 21st Century by Jessica Bruder: A compelling and really rather depressing look at the way our society is totally failing older adults (and really, let’s face it, most people). It follows several people who lost out in the 2008 economic downturn who are struggling to afford the basics (shelter, health care, food) with little to no security.

Educated by Tara Westover: This one has already gotten a ton of attention, so I don’t really have much to add, except for that it was really hard to read her descriptions of physical abuse and medical neglect. Infuriating.

I’ll Be Gone in the Dark by Michelle McNamara: Another one that has already been written about everywhere. Super compelling, well-written true crime. Also, it scared the bejesus out of me!


Adventures in (Fictional) Crime


Recently I set out on a quest to find crime novels that would fit my persnickety tastes, sparked by finishing the most recent entry in Tana French’s Dublin Murder Squad series, The Trespasser. I have enjoyed most entries in this series, all of which feature rich character development, setting, and atmosphere. The Trespasser was my favorite by far due to the main character, Detective Antoinette Conway. If you are not familiar with this series, each book focuses on a different lead detective, although they may also end up playing smaller roles in other entries. I loved Antoinette Conway, a bristly yet sympathetic character with huge chips on her shoulders, one from being a woman in a male-dominated, sexist department and one from growing up working class in Dublin. After finishing the book, I wanted more stories like this right away but didn’t know where to start. I don’t read many series, and the only other mystery series I have read all the way through is Kate Atkinson’s Jackson Brodie novels.

So I went looking for recommendations, both on various book sites and from friends on Facebook. Here were my guidelines:

  • A woman main character preferred, but not required, but must have at least one female character that is not a corpse (or soon to be corpse).
  • Adequate character development.
  • No cozies allowed.
  • Nothing too gruesome or anything with overly-detailed violence against women. I don’t want to spend a bunch of time in the mind of a sicko misogynistic killer stalking women with a bone saw (which was exactly why I quickly gave up on the one C.J. Box book I tried to read).
  • I want investigation of the crime to be a large component, so police procedural stories rather than psychological thrillers are best.
  • Present day or at least post-1950 time period preferred. I have liked some historical mysteries, particularly Amy Stewart’s Miss Kopp books, but they aren’t my favorites.
  • Realistic crimes, no paranormal nonsense please. I like fantasy and horror but it isn’t what I am looking for here.

I got quite a few recommendations from reader friends, so I started with those. Here they are ranked in how much I enjoyed them and how they fit what I was looking for.

A Distant Echo by Val McDermid: This was the book that was closest in style to the Tana French books I loved. It was very atmospheric, good character development, intriguing crime and investigation. However, it is billed as the first of the Karen Pirie series, and she barely makes an appearance until the end, so I didn’t get a feel for her character. I will have to read the second book in the series (A Darker Domain) to get a better feel for the series. (Bonus: I learned Scottish term that perfectly describes this gloomy spring weather we are having, “dreich”.)

Garnethill by Denise Mina: This one was very dark but definitely intriguing. It is not a police procedural as such, but involves an amateur sleuth who sets out to solve her boyfriend’s murder after she and her brother both find themselves under suspicion. I enjoyed the feminist revenge aspect of this one, and will definitely read the second in the series.

Indemnity Only and Dead Lock by Sara Paretsky: These are the first two V. I. Warshawski books, and I enjoyed them. I find, however, that I just don’t enjoy private investigator books as much as do ones that involve police investigations. I did enjoy the gritty early 80’s Chicago settings, and all the tough female friends that are always ready to help Vic out. It gets pretty unbelievable at times, with Vic putting herself in ridiculously risky situations that you know she’ll get out of, but it’s fun. I’ll read more when I want a quick, fun read.

The Cold Cold Ground by Adrian McKinty: This is the first in the Detective Sean Duffy series, set in 1980s Belfast. I found the setting and the main character pretty compelling, but the mystery was just okay. I may give the second one a try someday, but it’s not high on my list.

A is for Alibi by Sue Grafton: This one was fine, but it’s another private investigator series, and I did not find it to be as compelling as V.I. Warshawski. I did like that is was more realistic, but there just wasn’t enough there to make it memorable. I doubt I will continue with this series.

Devil in a Blue Dress by Walter Mosley: He’s popular so I thought I’d give this a try, the first in the Easy Rawlins series. I enjoyed the time period and the setting, but in general I found it rather sexist and a little gross. I doubt I’d read another by him.

If you know of any other authors or series I might like, please let me know! I haven’t sought out many mystery series before, so I know there is a bunch of good stuff I have probably missed.

My favorite reads of 2017

Favorite general fiction:

The Animators by Kayla Rae Whitaker

Sing, Unburied, Sing by Jesmyn Ward

My Name is Lucy Barton by Elizabeth Strout (This was my year of Elizabeth Strout, because I also read and loved Olive Kitteredge and Anything is Possible)

Things to do When You’re Goth in the Country by Chavisa Woods

We Were Witches by Ariel Gore

Rabbit Cake by Annie Hartnett

Going to Meet the Man by James Baldwin

Goodbye, Vitamin by Rachel Khong

Favorite suspense/mystery fiction:

Bluebird, Bluebird by Attica Locke

Darktown by Thomas Mullen

The Marsh King’s Daughter by Karen Dionne

Favorite science fiction:

A Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet by Becky Chambers

Passing Strange by Ellen Klages

Borne by Jeff VanderMeer

Comics/Graphic novels:

Slam! Volume 1 by Pamela Ribon

Paper Girls 3 by Brian K. Vaughan

Sweet Tooth (entire series) by Jeff Lemire


Magic City Gospel by Ashley M. Jones


After the Eclipse: A Mother’s Murder, a Daughter’s Search by Sarah Perry

The Bright Hour: A Memoir of Living and Dying by Nina Riggs

Priestdaddy: A Memoir by Patricia Lockwood

Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body by Roxane Gay

You Don’t Have to Say You Love Me: A Memoir by Sherman Alexie

Books I hated:

Milk and Honey by Rupi Kaur

The Rules Do Not Apply by Ariel Levy


Favorite books of 2016

2016 sure wasn’t good for much, but apparently it made me want to hide my face in a book even more than usual because I read 143 books this year. My favorite, and the one that I wish everyone in America would read, is Evicted: Poverty and Profit in the American City by Matthew Desmond. The heartbreaking and enraging light it sheds on poverty in America is even more important as we head into a Donald Trump administration, where the vulnerable are going to be increasingly at risk. So, please go read it if you haven’t yet!

Here are some more of my favorites, in no particular order:

Tomboy Survival Guide by Ivan Coyote- I just think the world would be a kinder and more forgiving place if everyone read some Ivan Coyote, and this is my favorite of theirs so far.

Childhood: The Biography of a Place by Harry Crews

The Sunlight Pilgrims by Jenni Fagan

Underground Airlines by Ben H. Winters

Half Wild: Stories by Robin MacArthur

Honorable mentions: Another Place You’ve Never Been by Rebecca Kauffman, Whatever Happened to Interracial Love by Kathleen Collins, How to Set a Fire and Why by Jesse Ball, Shrill by Lindy West, Ghost Songs by Regina McBride, Heat & Light by Jennifer Haigh, Commonwealth by Ann Patchett, Every Heart a Doorway by Seanan McGuire, The Sound of Gravel by Ruth Wariner.

Books I hated that everyone else seemed to love: Uprooted by Naomi Novik (which just seemed like a new version of Twilight to me, lame main character and creepy relationship dynamics) and When Breath Becomes Air (pretentious, felt overly academic and fake to me).

Book sale finds, Part 1: Our Dogs

Our Dogs

I buy a lot of old books from the library book sale and from other sources. My favorites are books about books, or outdated science, but I’m pretty much a sucker for anything odd or beautiful. I can’t remember when exactly I stumbled upon Our Dogs by John Brown (copyright 1909), but it is quite a charmer.
IMG_7037According to WorldCat this book is held at around 30 libraries and was intended for juvenile audience, which is surprising, but I guess it was a different era… It basically reads like an eccentric (and possibly drunk) old man pontificating at length about every dog his family has owned, and it is equally hilarious and touching.

One of my favorite entries is the last one, about a dog named Dick: “Still lives, and long may he live! As he was never born, possibly he will never die; be it so, he will miss us when we are gone… Every family should have a dog, it is like having a perpetual baby. It is the plaything and crony of the whole house. It keeps them all young. All unite upon Dick.”



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The best book I read in January: The Sound of Gravel

Sound of GravelThe Sound of Gravel is an incredibly gripping, heartbreaking memoir by Ruth Wariner about her life growing up in a polygamous Mormon cult. It’s a terrifying story of deprivation and abuse, and the harm that extreme religious beliefs so often inflict, especially upon women and children. Ruth’s story is more than that, though. Throughout it all, her deep love for her family shines through vividly. Her growing ability to see through the religious bullshit that ruined her mother’s life, and her bravery to do something about it when she most needed to, make for an inspiring read.

Once I started this one I could barely put it down, although I was tempted to throw it against the wall a few times out of sheer rage!